Introduction to my blog
I invite you to join me in the discussion about my memoir, An Illicit Love.Perhaps you’ve read it. Perhaps you’re wondering if reading it will help you make a decision about your own affair. Either way, you identify with my experiences and those of others in our situation.
I wrote my book to open conversation about affairs—mine, yours, everyone’s—since they mostly are cloaked in secrecy and silence. And that means secret, silent pain and bewilderment.
So let’s talk here. Submit questions. Ask for advice. For instance, readers have asked me:
As a psychotherapist shouldn’t you have known better?
Why have you written this memoir now? What were your reasons for doing so?
Why do you think more women today are having affairs?
How do I end an affair?
Why do you think wives who learn about their spouse’s affair stay in their marriage?
I look forward to hearing from you.